Why You’re Glad The Relationship Didn’t Work Out, By Zodiac Sign
Have you ever ended a relationship and immediately thought, “Oh, thank god that’s over!” Sure, right?
Of course, you have! Right after crying for a bit and bad mouthing the guy to your friends for a week straight.
Look, I get it, sometimes you need to be sad for a little bit. But after you realize that the relationship you were in was really toxic and bad for you, you can say, “Whew!” and move on with your life.
Not all bad relationships are lucky enough to end with you feeling relieved, but it certainly does help with finding closure. One of the worst feelings (at first, at least) is realizing that the relationship was over before it really began.
You might have hyped up the relationship with your friends (and yourself), but before you could really even make it official, he was calling it quits.
It might feel like a slap in the face for someone you thought you were hitting it off with to turn around and tell you that it wasn’t really ever going to work out, but it’s important to look for that silver lining, too.
When you’re upset that a relationship didn’t work out, it can feel good to tell your friends that he wasn’t even a good kisser or that he still had his mom do his laundry every week.
And even though these things might be kind of petty to bring up, it can certainly make the breakup feel a little easier to cope with.
But lucky for you, and everyone else out there who is having a hard time dealing with the sudden loss of a budding relationship, each horoscope sign has something they could probably work on to make their relationships last a bit longer.
Some zodiac signs don’t really know what they want in a relationship, while others have a hard time communicating and being honest with their partners. While this might not seem like such a huge deal, it definitely is when you’re the one he has a hard time deciding to stay with.
And let me just say that it is a lot better to have a relationship end suddenly when you’re with a guy who isn’t sure he really wants to be with you. I mean, talk about dodging a bullet, amirite? Inevitably, it’s going to suck for a while.
Maybe it won’t, but there’s a good chance it will. But after the mourning period is over, you can finally find someone who actually wants to be with you. And by then, you’ll know what kind of person you want to date.
But for now, here’s why you’re glad things didn’t work out, per astrology.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Make up your mind already – do you want me or not? If this sounds familiar, chances are you’ve probably said this at some point. Patience is not your forte, Aries, but there ARE times when demanding an answer right now actually works out in your favor.
While you might be a little demanding when it comes to having him profess his true feelings for you, you gotta know: is this worth your time or not? You should be glad things didn’t work out because it turns out he doesn’t know what he wants – and it’s better to be single than have some guy waste your time.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
You know that you have to take things slow at the beginning of a relationship when you’re with someone new – at least until you can both figure out what you want – but you also like knowing if the relationship is actually going anywhere or not.
You think he’d say something if things were moving too fast, right? Then how come it felt like he didn’t really care one way or the other? He may have met your friends and family, but it was a few months in and he had yet to tell you his mom’s name. Thank your lucky stars it’s over because he wasn’t serious about this relationship.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Constant communication is like, your thing, Gemini. It’s how you keep in touch with all of your old friends from school, your kickboxing buddy, and all of the guys you’re currently talking to. And because you’re so good at communication (and social media), keeping track of it all is way easy.
Of course, when you get someone like this last guy playing with your heart, it can make you feel like you’re losing your touch. The first minute, he’s all over you and next minute, you’re not sure if he’s ghosting you or if he was snatched by some giant, prehistoric bird (it’s gotta be that one, right?). Anyone who can’t be a grownup and just talk to you about how he feels deserves to live in your past.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
You can be a sultry vixen and a nurturing partner, Cancer, but you need to know that your guy undeniably appreciates all sides of your personality – not just the side he likes the most. If he doesn’t, you have no problem saying, “Sayonara!” and trying again.
Relationships are learning curves for you – you know that there are things you need to work on when finding the right guy for you and you’re willing to put in the work. You’re glad it didn’t work out this time because he didn’t respect what you wanted and who you are. You win
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